8. Look to the past
What attracted you to him when you first met? Was it his sparkling teeth or his sparkling personality? Even though it was many moons ago that he first caught your eye, he might still have some of those qualities. If you can focus on what used to make you go weak in the knees – like his blue eyes or how cute his laugh is – you may be able to regain your attraction to him.
9. Learn something new
But remember too, that your husband may be nothing like the man you fell in love with. You’ve changed as well Learn about who he is now and find new pieces of him to be attracted to. This takes effort but it’s so worth it.